{"language": "en", "segments": [{"text": " [...]", "start": 0.0, "stop": 7.7, "id": 0}, {"text": " [...]", "start": 15.64, "stop": 29.7, "id": 1}, {"text": " [...]", "start": 53.8, "stop": 54.42, "id": 2}, {"text": " Today is a high point in the romance of Bob and Mary for them the future.", "start": 54.66, "stop": 59.68, "id": 3}, {"text": " The future looks bright.", "start": 59.7, "stop": 60.56, "id": 4}, {"text": " Bob's mother and Mary's parents are confident too that the marriage will succeed", "start": 64.68, "stop": 69.02, "id": 5}, {"text": " because it's based on many things.", "start": 69.02, "stop": 71.18, "id": 6}, {"text": " Companionship, mutual interests, shared ambitions, and that mysterious intangible", "start": 71.92, "stop": 76.8, "id": 7}, {"text": " quality which we call love.", "start": 76.8, "stop": 78.9, "id": 8}, {"text": " And part of this love is their relationship to one another as man and woman.", "start": 79.86, "stop": 83.76, "id": 9}, {"text": " For Mary, good sex adjustment began when she was a very small child.", "start": 84.6, "stop": 88.4, "id": 10}, {"text": " Where is the baby, Mommy? Why won't it come?", "start": 88.68, "stop": 91.78, "id": 11}, {"text": " It's right here, dear. Of course it doesn't talk yet or cry", "start": 92.4, "stop": 96.9, "id": 12}, {"text": " or even eat by itself.", "start": 96.9, "stop": 99.02, "id": 13}, {"text": " It has to stay inside me till it's big and strong enough to be born.", "start": 100.06, "stop": 104.46, "id": 14}, {"text": " When it comes, Mommy, can I help to take care of it?", "start": 104.82, "stop": 107.84, "id": 15}, {"text": " Yes, dear.", "start": 108.46, "stop": 109.3, "id": 16}, {"text": " The idea of childbirth was made natural and normal for Mary.", "start": 110.08, "stop": 113.62, "id": 17}, {"text": " She was happy to know that she would have a new baby sister or brother.", "start": 114.14, "stop": 117.32, "id": 18}, {"text": " Bob's mother was a widow.", "start": 121.18, "stop": 122.82, "id": 19}, {"text": " In spite of this, she was determined that her son should have a proper", "start": 123.54, "stop": 126.44, "id": 20}, {"text": " knowledge of sex from the beginning.", "start": 126.44, "stop": 128.1, 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We're going to have to bring her.", "start": 348.46, "stop": 350.9, "id": 76}, {"text": " Oh, we don't have to bring her.", "start": 350.92, "stop": 352.5, "id": 77}, {"text": " You know what she's like with boys and Eric's?", "start": 352.72, "stop": 354.92, "id": 78}, {"text": " Mary, darling, you're keeping Lucille from her dinner.", "start": 355.04, "stop": 357.58, "id": 79}, {"text": " Oh, I was just leaving this again.", "start": 358.04, "stop": 359.4, "id": 80}, {"text": " Well, bye. I'll see you tomorrow.", "start": 359.86, "stop": 361.12, "id": 81}, {"text": " Okay, then. Bye. Bye.", "start": 361.12, "stop": 362.72, "id": 82}, {"text": " Mother forgets the devotion she had for her own girlfriend about 25 years ago.", "start": 364.48, "stop": 369.6, "id": 83}, {"text": " Next, there was a crush on Ethel Hampton, senior girl's tennis champion.", "start": 372.0, "stop": 377.1, "id": 84}, {"text": " Mary seemed to have a real need to be stirred up about someone.", "start": 378.0, "stop": 380.98, "id": 85}, {"text": " It was a transition stage from the antagonism toward boys just before puberty to", "start": 381.46, "stop": 386.72, "id": 86}, {"text": " the next stage of falling in love with a boy.", "start": 386.72, "stop": 389.3, "id": 87}, {"text": " Soon, she reached that stage.", "start": 391.12, "stop": 393.34, "id": 88}, {"text": " Her next crush was on the captain of a school football team.", "start": 397.72, "stop": 404.12, "id": 89}, {"text": " She spent hours trying to make herself more attractive, imagining herself in all", "start": 417.48, "stop": 422.82, "id": 90}, {"text": " sorts of romantic situations.", "start": 422.82, "stop": 424.4, "id": 91}, {"text": " It might be a boy.", "start": 427.06, "stop": 428.94, "id": 92}, {"text": " Hello? Oh, hello, Lucille.", "start": 432.54, "stop": 434.38, "id": 93}, {"text": " No, but it's going to be about a boy.", "start": 435.24, "stop": 436.78, "id": 94}, {"text": " This guy's going to ask me. He pretty nearly did today. He owns a class so long.", "start": 437.06, "stop": 441.1, "id": 95}, {"text": " Yeah.", "start": 442.02, "stop": 442.48, "id": 96}, {"text": " Oh, he is crazy. But he's still going to go, too. I don't know.", "start": 444.6, "stop": 449.48, "id": 97}, {"text": " Bob was growing up, too.", "start": 450.98, "stop": 454.94, "id": 98}, {"text": " He knew about the reproductive organs and nocturnal emissions.", "start": 455.44, "stop": 459.44, "id": 99}, {"text": " He also knew about masturbation, but he'd read that the problem was more", "start": 460.12, "stop": 464.52, "id": 100}, {"text": " mental than physical.", "start": 464.52, "stop": 466.04, "id": 101}, {"text": " He knew that the healthiest life for him was to have plenty of", "start": 467.76, "stop": 474.32, "id": 102}, {"text": " exercise and fresh air.", "start": 474.32, "stop": 475.82, "id": 103}, {"text": " He liked football, and the coach was a hero who could do no wrong.", "start": 476.64, "stop": 480.82, "id": 104}, {"text": " Bob tried to be as much like him as he could.", "start": 481.92, "stop": 485.12, "id": 105}, {"text": " His interests were mainly masculine, and his success at sports", "start": 487.9, "stop": 493.76, "id": 106}, {"text": " made him sure of himself.", "start": 493.76, "stop": 495.36, "id": 107}, {"text": " He could take girls in his stride, just as he did games.", "start": 496.0, "stop": 499.14, "id": 108}, {"text": " Until one day, when Bob was 16, it became apparent that his interest in girls was", "start": 503.02, "stop": 508.2, "id": 109}, {"text": " getting to be more than casual.", "start": 508.2, "stop": 510.84, "id": 110}, {"text": " Hello? Oh, hi, Ken. How are you?", "start": 524.54, "stop": 527.22, "id": 111}, {"text": " Oh, she's okay, but I can do better than her,", "start": 531.14, "stop": 534.26, "id": 112}, {"text": " Kenny. She's going around with Dave anyway.", "start": 534.48, "stop": 537.0, "id": 113}, {"text": " Well, let him keep her.", "start": 538.78, "stop": 540.08, "id": 114}, {"text": " Well, sure I could. I just didn't want to.", "start": 542.58, "stop": 544.5, "id": 115}, {"text": " Well, so what? I've got better prospects than her, too.", "start": 546.7, "stop": 550.36, "id": 116}, {"text": " You should see the one I'm taking tonight.", "start": 552.16, "stop": 553.82, "id": 117}, {"text": " Sure, that's the one, Elsie. What a doll.", "start": 555.4, "stop": 558.34, "id": 118}, {"text": " Her old man's got a car. Let's say he's it every Friday.", "start": 559.34, "stop": 562.22, "id": 119}, {"text": " I'm taking her down to Smith's pond tonight.", "start": 563.4, "stop": 565.66, "id": 120}, {"text": " We might go in for a little swim.", "start": 566.56, "stop": 567.8, "id": 121}, {"text": " Hello? No, he isn't. Is this Betty?", "start": 590.8, "stop": 594.26, "id": 122}, {"text": " Oh, Jane. Well, no. I beg your pardon?", "start": 595.68, "stop": 600.4, "id": 123}, {"text": " Well, no, Hazel. He isn't in an...", "start": 602.16, "stop": 604.76, "id": 124}, {"text": " No. No, I don't know where he was going. He didn't say.", "start": 604.76, "stop": 609.86, "id": 125}, {"text": " Not to me anyway.", "start": 611.36, "stop": 612.38, "id": 126}, {"text": " Girls, girls, girls, dates every night. She was worried.", "start": 612.94, "stop": 616.6, "id": 127}, {"text": " Perhaps his behavior was normal, but it was not to her liking.", "start": 616.7, "stop": 619.5, "id": 128}, {"text": " How could you get her more interested in his schoolwork?", "start": 620.06, "stop": 622.12, "id": 129}, {"text": " Mary and her gang were going through the hangout stage.", "start": 626.22, "stop": 628.58, "id": 130}, {"text": " They liked to be in a crowd.", "start": 629.2, "stop": 630.3, "id": 131}, {"text": " When you're not sure how to act or what to say, you can hide", "start": 631.06, "stop": 634.14, "id": 132}, {"text": " your confusion in the general hubbub.", "start": 634.14, "stop": 635.74, "id": 133}, {"text": " A girl has to look as though she knew her way around to be more", "start": 636.28, "stop": 639.26, "id": 134}, {"text": " sophisticated than she really is.", "start": 639.26, "stop": 640.78, "id": 135}, {"text": " It was all new and exciting, and Mary was proud of her success.", "start": 641.36, "stop": 644.76, "id": 136}, {"text": " She wanted the others to see how popular she was.", "start": 645.0, "stop": 648.06, "id": 137}, {"text": " Hi, Mary. How about going to the dance with me Saturday night?", "start": 648.52, "stop": 650.7, "id": 138}, {"text": " Well, I'll think about it.", "start": 651.02, "stop": 652.3, "id": 139}, {"text": " Hey, wait a minute. What about me?", "start": 652.52, "stop": 653.76, "id": 140}, {"text": " You didn't ask me.", "start": 654.06, "stop": 655.1, "id": 141}, {"text": " Well, I was going to.", "start": 655.3, "stop": 655.94, "id": 142}, {"text": " But you didn't, though. Jim got there first. Okay, Jim.", "start": 656.16, "stop": 659.48, "id": 143}, {"text": " Good. See you around.", "start": 659.7, "stop": 661.02, "id": 144}, {"text": " A little popularity gives one self-confidence, which isn't", "start": 662.98, "stop": 666.12, "id": 145}, {"text": " a bad thing in moderation.", "start": 666.12, "stop": 667.64, "id": 146}, {"text": " I don't even know that one's name.", "start": 682.8, "stop": 684.58, "id": 147}, {"text": " Alan, I'm worried about her. She's getting so silly over the boys.", "start": 685.54, "stop": 688.74, "id": 148}, {"text": " You should hear her on the phone.", "start": 689.68, "stop": 690.8, "id": 149}, {"text": " I have.", "start": 690.92, "stop": 691.56, "id": 150}, {"text": " But what worries me even more is the way she goes", "start": 692.36, "stop": 694.44, "id": 151}, {"text": " out dancing at these juke joints.", "start": 694.44, "stop": 696.0, "id": 152}, {"text": " She's got nothing in her head but boys, boys, boys.", "start": 696.76, "stop": 699.36, "id": 153}, {"text": " She's only out Friday and Saturday night.", "start": 700.4, "stop": 702.78, "id": 154}, {"text": " But I'm afraid she might make a little fool of herself.", "start": 703.28, "stop": 707.34, "id": 155}, {"text": " I can't keep saying don't all the time.", "start": 708.18, "stop": 710.5, "id": 156}, {"text": " There's no use saying don't to Mary. It makes her worse.", "start": 710.92, "stop": 714.36, "id": 157}, {"text": " Isn't there any positive approach to this business of sex education?", "start": 715.4, "stop": 718.94, "id": 158}, {"text": " She knows the physical facts, but that alone doesn't give", "start": 719.46, "stop": 723.12, "id": 159}, {"text": " her a healthy attitude to boys.", "start": 723.12, "stop": 724.68, "id": 160}, {"text": " I'll have to talk more to her about how to have fun with him without being silly.", "start": 725.54, "stop": 729.4, "id": 161}, {"text": " Well, I guess she'll just have to learn by experience how to look after herself.", "start": 730.0, "stop": 734.46, "id": 162}, {"text": " And Mary was learning by experience.", "start": 736.44, "stop": 738.3, "id": 163}, {"text": " She acquired a lot of social skills and graces.", "start": 739.52, "stop": 742.32, "id": 164}, {"text": " She learned how other people are likely to react to different situations.", "start": 745.94, "stop": 752.52, "id": 165}, {"text": " She learned about herself.", "start": 755.42, "stop": 757.2, "id": 166}, {"text": " And by going with a lot of boys, she found out what kind of", "start": 758.24, "stop": 761.08, "id": 167}, {"text": " boys she really liked most.", "start": 761.08, "stop": 762.7, "id": 168}, {"text": " And her mother tried to help her develop sound judgment about boys, not to be", "start": 764.52, "stop": 768.56, "id": 169}, {"text": " influenced by superficial glamour or the opinions of others.", "start": 768.56, "stop": 771.8, "id": 170}, {"text": " Because her mother never seemed shocked, Mary talked freely with her.", "start": 772.46, "stop": 776.4, "id": 171}, {"text": " By 16 and a half, Mary had settled down to go steady with one boy, George", "start": 778.92, "stop": 783.5, "id": 172}, {"text": " Palmer, who was in her class at school.", "start": 783.5, "stop": 785.6, "id": 173}, {"text": " He wasn't her ideal, but she liked going steady because it meant that she was", "start": 786.2, "stop": 789.66, "id": 174}, {"text": " always sure of having a date, and she never felt left out and unpopular.", "start": 789.66, "stop": 793.14, "id": 175}, {"text": " Her parents thought George was a nice boy, and they were glad to know who Mary", "start": 794.04, "stop": 797.46, "id": 176}, {"text": " was out with at first.", "start": 797.46, "stop": 799.0, "id": 177}, {"text": " But after several months, her mother began to be afraid that the", "start": 799.64, "stop": 803.12, "id": 178}, {"text": " affair was becoming too serious.", "start": 803.12, "stop": 804.84, "id": 179}, {"text": " Actually, Mary and George were at the point of breaking up anyway.", "start": 805.76, "stop": 809.68, "id": 180}, {"text": " [...]", "start": 835.76, "stop": 836.36, "id": 181}, {"text": " Yes, Mother?", "start": 836.34, "stop": 837.26, "id": 182}, {"text": " George again?", "start": 842.16, "stop": 844.46, "id": 183}, {"text": " Yes.", "start": 845.26, "stop": 845.78, "id": 184}, {"text": " You've seen so much of him, Mary.", "start": 846.78, "stop": 848.74, "id": 185}, {"text": " But I've told you, he's just a date. Can I have dates if", "start": 849.36, "stop": 853.06, "id": 186}, {"text": " boys want to take me out?", "start": 853.06, "stop": 854.64, "id": 187}, {"text": " Boy, yes. But is it always going to be George?", "start": 855.34, "stop": 858.96, "id": 188}, {"text": " It could get to be that way, you know.", "start": 859.96, "stop": 861.8, "id": 189}, {"text": " And I just don't think George is the one for you.", "start": 862.86, "stop": 865.36, "id": 190}, {"text": " Okay, Mother, if that's the way you feel about it, I won't see him anymore.", "start": 866.12, "stop": 870.24, "id": 191}, {"text": " Now will you please leave me alone?", "start": 871.74, "stop": 873.84, "id": 192}, {"text": " [...]", "start": 873.84, "stop": 875.2, "id": 193}, {"text": " Bob's mother was having her troubles, too.", "start": 886.3, "stop": 888.92, "id": 194}, {"text": " Hmm, pretty snazzy.", "start": 892.74, "stop": 895.8, "id": 195}, {"text": " She's getting fixed up a little.", "start": 896.86, "stop": 898.18, "id": 196}, {"text": " Who is the lucky girl tonight?", "start": 899.48, "stop": 900.94, "id": 197}, {"text": " Do I have to turn in a written report?", "start": 904.02, "stop": 906.16, "id": 198}, {"text": " Bob, I don't mean to be nosy, but...", "start": 907.92, "stop": 914.14, "id": 199}, {"text": " If it's Mary and again, she just isn't the kind of girl I", "start": 914.14, "stop": 919.44, "id": 200}, {"text": " like to have you going out with.", "start": 919.44, "stop": 921.1, "id": 201}, {"text": " Look, Mom, it's me that's going out with her, isn't it?", "start": 921.48, "stop": 923.66, "id": 202}, {"text": " And I think she's okay.", "start": 923.94, "stop": 924.94, "id": 203}, {"text": " Just because you're a bridge club and some", "start": 925.86, "stop": 927.4, "id": 204}, {"text": " of those other old names run her down, doesn't even...", "start": 927.4, "stop": 928.92, "id": 205}, {"text": " Well, not old names.", "start": 928.92, "stop": 930.12, "id": 206}, {"text": " I don't mean you. You know better than that.", "start": 932.24, "stop": 934.3, "id": 207}, {"text": " And we don't run her down.", "start": 934.58, "stop": 935.8, "id": 208}, {"text": " Okay, so you don't.", "start": 936.7, "stop": 937.64, "id": 209}, {"text": " But I pick the girls I take out, don't I?", "start": 938.34, "stop": 940.14, "id": 210}, {"text": " Yes.", "start": 940.56, "stop": 941.0, "id": 211}, {"text": " I guess you do.", "start": 943.34, "stop": 944.36, "id": 212}, {"text": " Good night, Mom.", "start": 946.16, "stop": 946.84, "id": 213}, {"text": " It seemed as though all the planning and guidance since he was a child", "start": 954.26, "stop": 958.38, "id": 214}, {"text": " had been a waste of time.", "start": 958.38, "stop": 960.04, "id": 215}, {"text": " Bob was going with a fast crowd.", "start": 965.06, "stop": 967.04, "id": 216}, {"text": " And, like most teenagers, he wanted to be one of the gangs.", "start": 967.64, "stop": 971.5, "id": 217}, {"text": " Go as far or farther than anyone else did.", "start": 972.3, "stop": 975.56, "id": 218}, {"text": " His mother didn't know what to do.", "start": 987.64, "stop": 989.86, "id": 219}, {"text": " If she said anything, he just became more secretive and defended his friends", "start": 990.34, "stop": 994.62, "id": 220}, {"text": " against her old-fashioned morals, as he called them.", "start": 994.62, "stop": 997.4, "id": 221}, {"text": " She felt that somehow she had failed in his training.", "start": 997.92, "stop": 1000.26, "id": 222}, {"text": " In the meantime, Mary had a new steady, Stanley Brooks.", "start": 1001.78, "stop": 1005.9, "id": 223}, {"text": " He had a good disposition, intelligence, reasonable good looks.", "start": 1006.0, "stop": 1009.42, "id": 224}, {"text": " He came closer to her ideal than George had.", "start": 1009.98, "stop": 1012.26, "id": 225}, {"text": " In fact, she thought this might be the real thing.", "start": 1012.6, "stop": 1015.18, "id": 226}, {"text": " Mary senses that her mother approves of Stan, and this encourages", "start": 1017.08, "stop": 1020.32, "id": 227}, {"text": " her to talk to her about him.", "start": 1020.32, "stop": 1022.1, "id": 228}, {"text": " But not long after, Stan's family moved away.", "start": 1024.78, "stop": 1031.0, "id": 229}, {"text": " And that was that.", "start": 1031.92, "stop": 1034.04, "id": 230}, {"text": " When a girl loses a steady, it takes a little while to get back in circulation.", "start": 1038.08, "stop": 1042.0, "id": 231}, {"text": " But if you want to meet boys, you go where boys are.", "start": 1042.78, "stop": 1045.32, "id": 232}, {"text": " Mary had a cheerful disposition.", "start": 1046.48, "stop": 1047.96, "id": 233}, {"text": " She was intelligent, healthy, and attractive,", "start": 1048.44, "stop": 1050.62, "id": 234}, {"text": " and she had no trouble making friends.", "start": 1050.86, "stop": 1052.72, "id": 235}, {"text": " Jack Arnold was one of the gangs she had known for years.", "start": 1053.7, "stop": 1056.34, "id": 236}, {"text": " He suddenly became interested and interesting.", "start": 1057.02, "stop": 1060.04, "id": 237}, {"text": " It seemed for a while to be romance with a capital R.", "start": 1064.36, "stop": 1070.66, "id": 238}, {"text": " Jack, please don't do that.", "start": 1073.28, "stop": 1082.62, "id": 239}, {"text": " Don't act like an iceberg all your life.", "start": 1082.7, "stop": 1084.38, "id": 240}, {"text": " Look, we love each other, don't we?", "start": 1084.74, "stop": 1086.36, "id": 241}, {"text": " Yes, but after all...", "start": 1086.42, "stop": 1088.0, "id": 242}, {"text": " After all what?", "start": 1088.0, "stop": 1089.12, "id": 243}, {"text": " Take me home.", "start": 1089.12, "stop": 1090.38, "id": 244}, {"text": " Now Mary began to realize what her mother had meant all these years.", "start": 1092.4, "stop": 1095.58, "id": 245}, {"text": " Through her own experience, Mary was developing a sound ideal of", "start": 1096.28, "stop": 1099.92, "id": 246}, {"text": " what love should mean in her life.", "start": 1099.92, "stop": 1101.44, "id": 247}, {"text": " It was not what Jack offered.", "start": 1102.12, "stop": 1103.52, "id": 248}, {"text": " The change is coming over Bob, too.", "start": 1107.8, "stop": 1110.02, "id": 249}, {"text": " Come on, Jeannie, time I was getting you home.", "start": 1112.76, "stop": 1114.26, "id": 250}, {"text": " Oh, fly, it's early.", "start": 1114.66, "stop": 1115.74, "id": 251}, {"text": " Work, Jeannie, work. I've got exams coming up in the morning.", "start": 1116.1, "stop": 1118.58, "id": 252}, {"text": " What a party pooper.", "start": 1119.22, "stop": 1120.48, "id": 253}, {"text": " Bob had been to plenty of wild parties.", "start": 1123.16, "stop": 1124.84, "id": 254}, {"text": " It wasn't so excitingly new anymore, and life", "start": 1125.34, "stop": 1128.08, "id": 255}, {"text": " was full of other interesting things.", "start": 1128.08, "stop": 1129.74, "id": 256}, {"text": " He had a career to think of. He began to stay at home more.", "start": 1130.02, "stop": 1133.02, "id": 257}, {"text": " This engineering stuff really takes slugging.", "start": 1133.4, "stop": 1135.28, "id": 258}, {"text": " You're going to lose out with your girlfriend.", "start": 1136.5, "stop": 1138.06, "id": 259}, {"text": " Don't worry.", "start": 1139.78, "stop": 1140.4, "id": 260}, {"text": " I won't.", "start": 1146.52, "stop": 1145.42, "id": 261}, {"text": " He still enjoyed parties. He still took out girls, a different one every week.", "start": 1147.56, "stop": 1151.68, "id": 262}, {"text": " But his perspective had changed.", "start": 1152.24, "stop": 1153.64, "id": 263}, {"text": " The desperate rush to find out all about sex was over.", "start": 1154.14, "stop": 1157.22, "id": 264}, {"text": " In his case, too, early training was taking on new", "start": 1157.96, "stop": 1160.76, "id": 265}, {"text": " meaning through personal experience.", "start": 1160.76, "stop": 1162.32, "id": 266}, {"text": " Mary had broken up with Jack, and by chance she turned up at the same time.", "start": 1166.46, "stop": 1170.38, "id": 267}, {"text": " The party is Bob.", "start": 1170.38, "stop": 1171.16, "id": 268}, {"text": " When they met that first night, both had a pretty good idea of", "start": 1174.84, "stop": 1180.1, "id": 269}, {"text": " the kind of people they really liked.", "start": 1180.1, "stop": 1181.72, "id": 270}, {"text": " It didn't seem much different from other dates", "start": 1186.4, "stop": 1192.88, "id": 271}, {"text": " at first, but after a few weeks, both knew that it was different.", "start": 1192.88, "stop": 1197.8, "id": 272}, {"text": " Petting was not just a form of entertainment or an experiment.", "start": 1198.34, "stop": 1201.6, "id": 273}, {"text": " There was real affection and mutual respect.", "start": 1202.1, "stop": 1204.4, "id": 274}, {"text": " More and more, they found in each other the things they were looking for.", "start": 1206.4, "stop": 1211.36, "id": 275}, {"text": " Being together heightened the enjoyment of everything they did.", "start": 1212.02, "stop": 1214.92, "id": 276}, {"text": " They tried to be together all the time.", "start": 1215.6, "stop": 1217.58, "id": 277}, {"text": " They had their quarrels, mostly over jealousy.", "start": 1221.06, "stop": 1226.14, "id": 278}, {"text": " But each time they knew from the beginning they'd make up.", "start": 1232.08, "stop": 1235.6, "id": 279}, {"text": " They both had a good sense of humor.", "start": 1236.4, "stop": 1238.04, "id": 280}, {"text": " They both enjoyed doing the same things.", "start": 1239.68, "stop": 1242.4, "id": 281}, {"text": " Because of similar family and educational", "start": 1246.98, "stop": 1253.92, "id": 282}, {"text": " background, they had much the same way of looking at things.", "start": 1253.92, "stop": 1257.04, "id": 283}, {"text": " They began to know that this time it was for keeps.", "start": 1257.88, "stop": 1260.68, "id": 284}, {"text": " They were so sure that their love was deep and spiritual, that at times a", "start": 1262.46, "stop": 1268.34, "id": 285}, {"text": " marriage ceremony seemed to be just a formality.", "start": 1268.34, "stop": 1271.0, "id": 286}, {"text": " Love seemed to be all that really mattered.", "start": 1271.86, "stop": 1274.04, "id": 287}, {"text": " But each of them knew deep down that they wanted their marriage", "start": 1274.84, "stop": 1278.12, "id": 288}, {"text": " vows to have real meaning.", "start": 1278.12, "stop": 1279.66, "id": 289}, {"text": " [...]", "start": 1284.52, "stop": 1292.36, "id": 290}, {"text": " Bob and Mary had a healthy attitude toward one another as man and woman that was", "start": 1292.36, "stop": 1297.32, "id": 291}, {"text": " built up step by step since childhood.", "start": 1297.32, "stop": 1300.14, "id": 292}, {"text": " First, each of them learned the biological facts of sex as soon as", "start": 1302.36, "stop": 1307.66, "id": 293}, {"text": " they were able to understand them.", "start": 1307.66, "stop": 1309.2, "id": 294}, {"text": " Second, they learned about the other sex from their own experience.", "start": 1309.8, "stop": 1312.72, "id": 295}, {"text": " Thirdly, their parents tried to help them understand the real values of sex life.", "start": 1314.52, "stop": 1319.08, "id": 296}, {"text": " And finally, long after reaching physical maturity, they became emotionally", "start": 1322.0, "stop": 1326.68, "id": 297}, {"text": " independent of family apron springs.", "start": 1326.68, "stop": 1328.66, "id": 298}, {"text": " Now, they're on their own.", "start": 1329.72, "stop": 1331.64, "id": 299}, {"text": " Do you believe their parents have done the best they could to help Mary", "start": 1334.7, "stop": 1341.44, "id": 300}, {"text": " and Bob make all these adjustments?", "start": 1341.44, "stop": 1343.74, "id": 301}, {"text": " Are Mary and Bob typical of our teenagers?", "start": 1347.7, "stop": 1360.18, "id": 302}, {"text": " Have they a sound background for marriage?", "start": 1363.26, "stop": 1365.7, "id": 303}, {"text": " What do you think?", "start": 1367.94, "stop": 1369.16, "id": 304}]}